Teaching in Afghanistan

In preparing to deliver training in Afghanistan, one of my concerns was being a Lutheran-Christian woman teaching Moslem men.  I wondered if I would suffer any prejudice? Or, if the men would direct their questions to the translator, instead of me?

I am pleased to report that every man both in and out of  class has treated me with the utmost respect. In fact, the teaching experience is extremely rewarding. My only disappointment is that only one woman attended my Public Administration class, and today the woman that had attended yesterday’s Governance class, did not attend today.

According to Moselm custom, men and women do not touch each other.  Instead, women, when greeted, put their hand over their chest with a slight bow.  I’ve noticed that some men will offer their hand in greeting, especially after a day or two of class.  I am taking that as a sign of respect and some acknowledgement of equality, whether or not it is meant in that way.  Glen told me that given two men from the Public Administration Class requested to continue with the Governance class attending every day, he knows that the trainings are being well received.

Perhaps, because I spent some time studying the proper way to dress in order to honor the culture here, and purchasing the appropriate clothing online, respect was returned to me.  Many of the men here at the compound commented favorably on my respectful dress.  To tell you the truth, it’s kind of fun dressing up everyday Afghan style !